Archive for the ‘Inspiration’ Category

The Incident That Motivated Me to Give My Book Away

Tuesday, January 5th, 2010

The Incident That Motivated Me to Go Crazy and Give My Book Away

Ed Osworth - The Joy Professor here. I have been swamped with questions about why I decided to give my book away - since it is already in bookstores. Am I crazy?

I will explain exactly the incident that motivated my change from selling my book to gifting my book.

This year I’ve taught many live Unstoppable Joy classes in Eugene Oregon. The experience was fantastic and it gave me a brand-new perspective on my work.

Every week our group would gather and every week the level of Joy would increase.

And every time I gave the classes something would happen that changed me.

I would look out into the group and I would see someone’s eyes light up when they finally realized how important joy is to their life and discovered their power to create it themselves.

There was a certain student, a single mother recently divorced who was so sad during the first few sessions. It was obvious that she felt life was crushing her. With two teenaged children to support and husband gone her life was very challenging. Even affording the gas to get to the class was a major challenge.

About the fourth session I could see that she had a major breakthrough. She had been practicing the joy creation exercises and they took hold of her. In a few short weeks her eyes had gone from sadness and depression to happiness and elation.

She came up to me after that class in tears expressing her gratitude to me. She said that the simple lessons of Unstoppable Joy and turned her everyday existence around.

No, the challenges in her life had not all magically disappeared. But the way she saw her problems and challenges had entirely changed. She now woke up in the morning looking forward to the day, whereas before she dreaded waking up at all.

While I drove home that evening from class I had a major personal awakening.

There is a crisis going on in the world right now. Job loss, retirement accounts devastated, wage cuts, bankruptcies, lack of credit and soaring interest rates.

It is a crisis that for some has made their future look very uncertain. So many things have shifted economically that millions of folks out there feel like they’re at the end of the ropes.

And many of the folks who need the information in “Unstoppable Joy” the most are the ones who can least afford to pay for it.

I realized that I could no longer hold the powerful information contained in my book from those who could not afford it in these challenging times.

The simple lessons are so powerful that I have seen student after student literally improve every single moment of their day by using them.

To me it simply would not be right to limit the spread of that same joyous effect to as many folks as possible by insisting on payment.

So I created a digital copy of Unstoppable Joy in that will be freely distributed to every single person who signs up for my inspirational messages of my free “Joy News Today” newsletter.

Please help me to spread the joy as far as possible. When anyone in your life looks like they could use more happiness, send them to the site

http://JoyForFree.com

so that they can get their own copy of “Unstoppable Joy.”

Working together we can spread the word far and wide that no matter what the circumstances in your life everyday joy is still an attainable goal.

As a wise man once said “Pain is inevitable but suffering is optional”.

Help me to reduce the suffering part for as many people as we can.

Joy, Peace, Abundance, and Delight

Ed Osworth
The Joy Professor

10 Sure Fire Steps to Daily Happiness

Monday, May 18th, 2009

A great article based on research in England on simpler ways to create daily happiness. 10 Easy Steps to Happiness That Really Work

A few years ago, a social experiment in improving happiness was undertaken in the village of Slough, England. Social researchers used known cognitive and social methods to improve the happiness of Slough and it actually worked. Measurements taken before and after the experiment showed a demonstrable rise in individual and collective happiness for the people of Slough.

Click Here for Full Article

“It is impossible to find perfection, but it is easy to accept perfection”

Thursday, October 2nd, 2008

It is impossible to find perfection, but it is easy to accept perfection.
Sounds contradictory, doesn’t it?

Here are the basics.

The problem with this planet is that no matter how hard you look - you can not find perfection.

Matter of fact - the harder you strain to find perfection - the farther it seems to be.

The blessing on this planet is that perfection is actually all around us.

The perfect balance of the Universe necessitates that everything is perfect.

If it wasn’t it wouldn’t work.

The Clock Stops

Look at it this way. If you pull a tiny gear out of a giant grandfather clock - the clock stops - no matter how big it is. It needs every single tiny spring and screw to function.

Your life is a tiny gear in the largest, most perfectly balanced machine imaginable - the Universe. There is no way things COULDN’T be perfect.

It is the nature of the machine to require every part working to function at all.

So why don’t we feel things are perfect. Why does everything look so crazy and out of whack?

It is because our “personal” viewpoint of our lives is one 3 billionth of the big picture here on earth.

Looking through a Keyhole

It is like we are looking through a keyhole and believing the tiny little image we see is the whole world.

Rather than trusting that everything is OK, we think of a million ways is “should” be different.

The irony is that those changes you think should happen would throw something in the Universe out of whack.

They may well have huge unintended consequences.

Such a simple choice as to whether you take a certain route somewhere could literally make a life or death difference.

Example - You are driving to an important meeting, feeling fantastic. Running just in the nick of time, you turn down a street that you use every day and, ouch, detour signs everywhere. The street you need, the only convenient way is blocked off with construction. Oh, no! You feel your stomach churn and blood pressure rise as you realize that you now have to drive miles out of your way.

You gripe and moan to yourself “I’m gonna be late. My plans are ruined, now I’ll look flaky and may lose the contract. Why do these things always happen to me? This is so unfair etc, etc.”

You are unaware that you had not been delayed and taken your “normal” route - the truck with bad brakes and you would have met in an intersection you drive through every day.

Boom, crash! And that, would be that.

But you would have been running on time, just like you planned. You would have gotten what you thought you wanted.

Unfortunately, the world would have lost all your unique talents and potential and maybe all your offspring as well. But you would have gotten your way.

Sometimes “your way” is not in the best interest of the whole 3 billion of your brothers and sisters and the untold billions in the millennium to come.

In those cases the Universe intervenes in it’s perfection. Sometimes it will even put up a “Detour” sign in your life for your benefit.

As the Universe Lovingly Laughs

Imagine how funny it looks to the Universe as you gripe because it put energy in motion to save your life this morning.

This is the other side of the saying “Man plans and God laughs”.

That saying us usually said to demonstrate the futility of planning. I see it differently To may way of thinking mostly God (Goddess, Universe, Higher Self, whatever fits your belief system) is laughing with you. Not at you.

So instead of looking for perfection - just sit back and accept it.

It’s all around you — all the time.

Guaranteed.

Ed Osworth
The Joy Professor

Author of “Unstoppable Joy! -
A Happier You in 12 Simple Steps”

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Can One Find The Joy in Personal Tragedy? On The Loss of A Pet.

Tuesday, September 23rd, 2008

I get asked this a lot.

And I am the first to admit that it is VERY difficult to maintain a positive and joyous attitude when a life upheaval throws a major curve ball in your direction.

Unstoppable Joy! A Happier You in 12 Simpler Steps.

Unstoppable Joy! A Happier You in 12 Simple Steps.

Rather than answer the question directly, I will tell you a personal story about how I dealt with a small tragedy in my life about 8 years ago.

I fully realize that every “tragedy” is a bit different and some look way larger than others. Please don’t think I am trying to compare a death of a cat to a diagnosis of terminal cancer.

One size does not fit all tragic situations, that is for certain. But I hope this story can be of value to some of you.

The Story…

I had a cat for 12 years who became my best friend. His name was “Handsome Stranger”.

His company became even more important to me when my wife of 25 years left me.

About a year after she left Handsome fell into very bad health. He got multiple infections and the antibiotics couldn’t bring him out of it.

Every day he got sicker and sicker. He reached the point that he couldn’t even eat anymore. My heart was broken.

Yet he would pretend to eat because he knew I was watching. He saw how much I wanted him to be his old healthy self that he refused to let me see how bad he was.

His health was a one way street leading downhill fast. He would crawl where I couldn’t find him to hide his condition from me. To protect me from the pain he saw in my face when I saw him in his condition.

I knew what I had to do.

As I drove him to the vet for his final injection I told him stories all the way of all the great times we had together. Between the tears (which I tried so hard to hide from him) I laughed and joked with him.

I didn’t want him to see how much I was hurting anymore than he wanted me to see him hurting…

The Vet assistant was an angel. As she made that injection she made sure the last thing he heard was that “You are the best kitty ever”.

I will never forget the look of gratitude in his eyes as he glanced my direction for the very last time. He was in such pain and now it was finally over - once and for all.

That look removed all my guilt.

As soon as I got home from that visit to the vet I realized that there are many ways I could remember my best buddy.

So I worked on a poem - like a child would. A silly child like poem that would always be available to me whenever I thought of Handsome.

That poem helped me to extract the bits of joy from this painful incident.

And when I remember Handsome - I always smile and remember the joy he brought to my life - not the pain of that last day.

(Well OK I admit did shed a few tears detailing this in my blog today)

Here it is….

Unstoppable Joy! A Happier You in 12 Simpler Steps.

Unstoppable Joy! A Happier You in 12 Simple Steps.

Handsome Stranger

The greatest animal I’ve known
has passed into the great unknown

I miss my pal so awfully much
I’ve lost the one I loved to touch

The feel of his fur, the deafening purr
are memories that will endure

His friendly mew, his charming ways
would brighten up the darkest days

When I would cry, he was right there
to share the wisdom in his stare

He was so wise, so all complete
he never would admit defeat

His soul shined such a wondrous light
it kept me warm through countless nights

“No soul in cats!” that’s what folks say
but I see things another way

I say that God is in those eyes
the cat is just a great disguise

A messenger from heaven above
a teacher of the ways of Love

“You must make time for fun today”
is what your cat will always say

Sit in the sun and have a ball
I do it, even though I’m small

Take time to rest, then run and play
and cuddle up at the end of the day

Be close… heck I’ll sit in your lap
Forget about the useless crap

For life is short, with too few years
to be sad and full of fears

It’s what God wanted us to see
so She made cats for you and me

Joy and Delight

Ed Osworth
The Joy Professor

Wonderful Video - I Choose Love

Tuesday, September 16th, 2008